So great to hear that you got things off your chest, and that it turned out the way you hoped! I have so many things that I turn inward, on myself, keeping myself miserable, because I’m so scared of hurting someone else’s feelings… no matter how bad they are hurting mine. I hope that some day soon, I will have the courage to let those things out, the way you have done, and not worry so much about their reactions!
I know exactly what you mean. There is a conversation that I need to have with someone, but I find myself wondering if I should have it or just let it go. The friendship was always a very trying one, and since she and I aren’t talking I must admit that things are a lot calmer for me. I miss her, and yet, I don’t. Does that make sense?
I’m glad your situation worked out well for you.
Connie
I do this all the time (have conversations with people in my head). I have one person I need to have a conversation with, but it’s not the right time. It’s hard to wait, knowing that in good time it will happen. And so I continue carrying on the conversation round and round in my head : ) I’m happy to hear that you were able to have a successful talk and that it turned out the way you’d hoped!
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September 7th, 2008 at 12:44 pm
So great to hear that you got things off your chest, and that it turned out the way you hoped! I have so many things that I turn inward, on myself, keeping myself miserable, because I’m so scared of hurting someone else’s feelings… no matter how bad they are hurting mine. I hope that some day soon, I will have the courage to let those things out, the way you have done, and not worry so much about their reactions!
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September 7th, 2008 at 3:03 pm
I know exactly what you mean. There is a conversation that I need to have with someone, but I find myself wondering if I should have it or just let it go. The friendship was always a very trying one, and since she and I aren’t talking I must admit that things are a lot calmer for me. I miss her, and yet, I don’t. Does that make sense?
I’m glad your situation worked out well for you.
Connie
September 7th, 2008 at 3:12 pm
I do this all the time (have conversations with people in my head). I have one person I need to have a conversation with, but it’s not the right time. It’s hard to wait, knowing that in good time it will happen. And so I continue carrying on the conversation round and round in my head : ) I’m happy to hear that you were able to have a successful talk and that it turned out the way you’d hoped!
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September 7th, 2008 at 4:43 pm
Consider yourself fortunate. Not many people get that opportunity. Glad you were able to have that moment!
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September 7th, 2008 at 8:14 pm
Wait’ll I get to step 9!!!!
September 8th, 2008 at 8:13 am
Ahhh, I do know what you mean. I’m glad someone got the opportunity for it to come true. And I love the way you blogged it without blogging it. : )
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